Building on my training with St Ethelburga's Centre for Peace and Reconciliation and my many years of sitting alongside clients as they go through bitter and heartbreaking conflicts and betrayals, I offer a confidential conflict resolution service. This takes place within a safe, neutral space for families, couples and communities to address disputes with the care and depth these sensitive situations require.

Everyone inevitably faces interpersonal conflicts that can fracture relationships, possibly fragmenting our lives. I have learnt how to navigate deep rifts with respect, care, humility and acceptance. If both parties are genuinely willing to come together and look for a shared solution then there is always hope.

Such conflicts carry the unique complexities of shared histories, cultural differences, transference, power dynamics, and deeply personal transformation processes.

Drawing on the Dialogue for Peaceful Change model, I facilitate voluntary mediation honouring each subjective experience whilst seeking genuine understanding and resolution. This approach recognises that conflicts often involve not just interpersonal dynamics but also questions of ethics, boundaries, and the sacred nature of intergenerational work. This process emphasises deep listening, mutual recognition, and the possibility for conflicts to become gateways to greater understanding and healing. I always work with at least one other facilitator, ensuring blind spots and unconscious bias is more likely addressed.

All sessions are completely confidential, allowing participants to engage authentically without fear of reputational damage or community ostracism, fostering the kind of vulnerable dialogue essential for true resolution and restored relationships.